I spend so much time babysitting my nephew because my sister has to work, but I have a job too?

I hear u and i understand; however, from a woman who had children young it made me feel better to have my babies with family. Daycares are not bad but they aren't great either. So you probably ease there mind A LOT! So I will say thank you and it also grooms you for the future. Maybe they can't afford daycare,I mean it does cost your arm legs and neck to pay for it. If they can afford day care tell them to pay you and you can quit your other job otherwise they will have to find other means. BUT remember there are those who have knowone so know that u may be called upon now but your nephew may be the one taking care of you when you get older. Trust me I talk to A LOT of retirees and thank GOD for neices and nephews they always tell me. You know its funny becase my children LOVE their aunt and my neices and nephews LOVE me.