Your definition of a man?

We're all different & as such have different things we use to measure what makes a real man verses I guess to be a bit steroetyping or sexist a male or guy. In years past he might have a lean but not to musclur body deep voice & talk a good manly way like "clint eastwood" or Bondish / brad pittish then there was a phase where he was musclar & agressive often proving his bravodo with fights and cheesy pick up lines & tight shirts. Then there was the phase of the more sensitive caring guy who would think first & when necassary act but not go hard charging into or start fights just to try to impress the girl. There there was the johnny depp days wehere a guy didnt have to have big arms & could be shy or not eager for the limelight but yet have a suprising mysterious side even if rare without over doing it. What are some things that you very a guy needs to fill your definition of a man. It could be as symply as blue eyes or long hair. Just the most important things. I know what guys think a man should be however I'd like to think that the world is past the caveman days at least a bit.